Commanding vs. Demanding Respect

Luke Kuepfer • Oct 01, 2018

A Serving Leadership Insight from the Life of Jesus Christ (Mark 1:23-28)

In Mark 1:23–28 Jesus’ authority is so evident that evil lesser powers cried out in fear. The man possessed by the evil spirit also identified Jesus as the Holy One of God. Jesus obviously had a presence about him that commanded respect. He didn’t demand it or seek a confrontation. Rather, his life exuded a powerful influence that garnered instant respect from those who recognized it. In sharp contrast, the religious leaders had not forced an encounter with the possessed individual who frequented their synagogue. The people in fact, discerned the difference between their authority and that of Jesus; they quickly spread the news about Jesus all over the region. Leaders who demand respect rarely get it; they’re not deemed worthy of receiving honor. Serving leaders have real influence, however, not because of titles or positions of stated authority, but rather because their lives bring life, freedom, and transformation to others.

Lead, love, and serve, like Jesus!

KEY QUESTIONS: Who have I observed that demanded respect? Commanded respect? Have I ever experienced the atmosphere in a room changing when someone with authority entered? If so, how would I describe their presence? What might I do in practical terms to increase my authority and respect?

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