Recognizing Real Motives Before Passing Judgment

Luke Kuepfer • Mar 12, 2018

A Serving Leadership Insight from the Life of Jesus Christ (Matthew 26:6-13

In Matthew 26:6–13, we get a glimpse of Jesus’ perspective on extravagant love. While dining with Simon the Leper, a lady appeared and anointed his head with a very expensive perfume. Aghast at such waste, the disciples indignantly sputtered, “This perfume could have been sold at a high price and the money given to the poor.” Jesus saw a woman’s lavish devotion while others only saw a misuse of resources. She had most likely taken a family heirloom—probably an import from the east worth a year’s wages—and emptied it all on the one she so loved. Jesus recognized what was behind this spontaneous and extravagant gift—a woman’s love and devotion. Serving leaders comprehend gestures of extreme sacrifice rather than judging people according to principles of prudent investment. Jesus was not diminishing the value of caring for those in poverty; he was simply commending a woman for her act of adoration and loyalty.


Lead, love, and serve, like Jesus!

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KEY QUESTIONS: Am I liberal or conservative with my generosity? Do I catch others doing the right thing or do I critique and correct, even if it’s only in my spirit? What are some extravagant acts of love and service I could practice?

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