Choosing Wisely after Failure

Luke Kuepfer • May 28, 2018

A Serving Leadership Insight from the Life of Jesus Christ (Matthew 26:69–27:10)

In Matthew 26:69–27:10, we have contrasting stories of Peter and Judas. They both betrayed Jesus, but each chose a different path when overcome with remorse. Peter’s three denials of Christ led to bitter tears and repentance. Judas’ betrayal led to despair and suicide. Jesus’ mercy and forgiveness were available to both men, yet only one chose hope over despair. The former was ignited by contrition, the latter by self-condemnation. Serving leaders choose to examine their wrong choices, acknowledge their misconduct, and move forward toward reconciliation and wholeness. Self-condemnation is destructive, failing to restore what’s been lost. Serving leaders accept responsibility for failure and obtain healing and humility as a result. Peter went on to become a great leader in the early church; Judas destroyed all future possibilities. Allow failure to propel you toward repentance, humility, and restoration.

Lead, love, and serve, like Jesus!

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KEY QUESTIONS: How have I dealt with past failures? How might I approach them differently today? How could I help someone else overcome their self-condemnation and move them toward reconciliation and wholeness?

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